In general, ENFPs are warm, inclusive, charming, charismatic, communicative,
caring - and fun. They love to interact for they are outgoing, imaginative
and enthusiastic. In fact, they can be downright inspiring.
Naturally open-minded, they offer sympathy and gentleness to those
they perceive to be "needy". They are, indeed, "people" persons and
are sincere in their attempts to find antidotes to fit the suffering
Being interested in both ideas and people, they often enjoy
reading philosophies for life from a variety of sources, seeking a better
idea over an older one, for they will, indeed, discard what they feel to
be outmoded. Their "staying" power may become suspect when something
"new" or exciting comes along. The old can be quickly replaced -
including old friends if newer and more exciting ones are close at hand
(at least in the amount of attention given).
ENFPs are genuine in their like for people and have a charming way
of injecting levity and laughter in what has potential to be a grave situation.
They find a way to bring lightness into the situation - which, at times,
turns out to be inapproriate . This can sometimes lead to embarrassing
moments of being seen as "silly" when somberness was decidedly called for
and insincere when gravity was obviously the tone for the moment, for they
can get "carried away" in a flash of spontaneity. And, unless mature
or maturing, ENFPs are seen as needing to be the center of attention, "on-stage"
or the "shining star" because they do seem to need to know that they are
liked or likeable.
They can be "so fun" as parents and affectionately warm as mates
and kind as friends - but they are so easily distracted by the next new
idea, new thought, new convention that their mates, children and old friends
are thrown off-guard by their "unavailability" - psychologically
or physically - time and time again. They are not the most dependable
people in the world and, certainly, are not clock-watchers! They
are, however, people-watchers, constantly scanning the environment - both
inner and outer landscapes - for nuance of "meaning", the "flow
of energy", no matter how slight.
But soft-hearted they are and truly enjoyable. Of them the
unexpected must always be expected. They follow their own drumbeat
and are not apt to be enamoured with tradition, convention or organization.
They are able to be quite ingenious and like finding "another way" just
to keep things energetically DIFFERENT!
ENFPs are capable of having very strong convictions about their core
values and inner urgings that drive them to know "everything" about what
they believe in. They can be found leading a rebellion against the
perceived status quo or the unfair actions of the establishment.
They will use persuasion or ideas to "fight".
Deadlines are the bane of their existence for they are great procrastinators - leading friends and family to think that their commitment is often shallow. They generally need assistance with goal-setting and must ofttimes be prodded to "get the job" done ON TIME. It is not that they are incapable, but that they are stimulated by the novel, not the tedious (to them) little details that just are not fun - therefore, not quite so important in a day's work. Being with people and friends is so much more important - even when they have a greater need for quiet meditation and reflection in order to find that Holy Grail of Cosmic Proportion, the meaning of which they wholeheartedly seek.